5 signs you’re in the wrong job

Oct 31

I just saw a TikTok video of a woman saying you should stop trying to find a fulfilling job and just find one that will help you pay the bills.

I think that’s a crock.

You’ll spend about a third of your lifetime working. Do you really just want to “suck it up” and gut it out? (Life’s too short if you ask me.)

Listen, I’ve been there. I worked a full-time job in Corporate America that was flexible, paid well, and helped me do my life. But after a few years, I was bored to death and complaining so much that my friends and family were begging me to make a change.

So if you’re wondering, “Am I in the wrong job?” or “Do I need to change careers?” Here are 5 signs that you might be in the wrong job:

You feel like you’re constantly working but going nowhere
You don’t feel challenged or inspired in your work
You don’t care about your company’s mission or vision
The only thing keeping you in your job is the money
You dread Mondays

Let’s dive in, shall we?

You feel like you’re constantly working but going nowhere

Hamster wheels are great for hamsters. People? Not so much.

If you’re constantly working, the to-do list never seems to end, and you NEVER feel any sense of accomplishment or success, what is even happening?

There are few things more demoralizing than spending 40 plus hours a week of your life doing something that feels stupid and pointless.

I don’t care if you’re scrubbing floors or sorting mail into different piles, you need to know WHY you’re doing this work. Who does it impact? What happens if you don’t do it?

If you ask yourself those questions and come up with, “nobody” and “nothing,” then there’s a problem here, Boss.

You were put on this planet to leave a mark, not to collate your TPS reports.

You don't feel challenged or inspired in your work

The brain hates change. But the soul craves it.

I remember being in my corporate job, staring at a blank word document, trying to write about stress - AGAIN.

I had written a bazillion pieces on stress. I should’ve been able to do it in my sleep. But I just couldn’t muster up even a pea-sized amount of enthusiasm. Because I was sooooooo bored.

Our natural state is one of growth and expansion and exploration.

So if you know all there is to know in your current job and there’s no sign that you’ll ever learn anything new and the only skill you’re building is how to scroll job postings without your boss finding out - it might be time to move on.

You don't care about your company's mission or vision

Every company I’ve ever worked for had a mission statement or values plastered somewhere. And even if I couldn’t recite it like the pledge of allegiance, I’d always read it, shrug, and be like - “Sure, I’m down for that.”

But what happens when you just don’t care about what your company is all about? Or worse - you disagree with it?

Working for a company or a team you don’t align with is about as comfortable as wearing shoes that are a size too small. They might look okay on the outside but your toes are crunched, you’re getting blisters, and all you can think about is kicking them off and walking around barefoot. Meanwhile, people around you are like, “Why are you hobbling around???”

You want to work for an organization that gives you a sense of purpose and meaning.

The only thing keeping you in your job is the money

Money can’t buy you happiness. And it can’t buy you job satisfaction either.

Listen - There’s nothing wrong with loving the money you make or being motivated by dollar signs. Money is super fun.

But when money is the only reason you show up for work each day, then you might be in the wrong job.

Maybe you think a pay increase would be nice, but deep down you know there’s no amount of money that will make you like your work.

It’s possible to find work that pays you decent money AND lights you up. So why would you settle for less?

You dread Mondays

I once had a therapist job where I was overworked, overmanaged, and underpaid (I couldn’t even afford to pay my student loans).

And while we had 3 day weekends (yay!), I’d spend all day Sunday dreading the next day and fantasizing about a job at Starbucks (I hear they have great benefits!).

If you live for the weekends and feel like you have to fit a week’s worth of joy into two days because the other five days at your job are a slog, you might be in the wrong job.

What to do if you’re in the wrong job

Despite what your parents and some rando on Tik Tok say, you don’t have to suck it up and stay “stuck” in the wrong job, just because it pays the bills.

So if you suspect it’s time to break up with your job, you have a few options:

Stay put, complain about it so much to your friends and family that they are OVER IT, and keep on keeping on (yes, this is always an option)
Stay put while you get really clear on what you want to be when you grow up and create an exit plan
Quit Jerry McGuire-style because you can’t take it anymore and then figure out your next steps.

Regardless of what you decide to do next, just decide (I stayed in bad jobs for way too long because I was confused and scared of the unknown).

And if you want someone by your side as you figure things out, let’s talk about working together. I’ve had so many clients come to me feeling lost in their careers. And I usually help them get clear within just a few sessions together.

You don’t have to stay “stuck.” I’m here for you.

Are you ready to do the impossible?

Hi! I’m Erica

Wife to Brendan. Mom to twins + one. Dog mom. Slow runner. Coffee drinker. GIF enthusiast.

I’m a licensed mental health therapist and life coach and career coach. I help you accomplish in 6 months that thing you’ve been thinking about doing for years.